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		<title>Comment on Let&#8217;s Talk About Dating by aniark</title>
		<link>http://messagemagazine.com.au/archives/510#comment-101</link>
		<dc:creator>aniark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 11:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, masha Allah!
I cannot believe how relieved I am.
As this article fades my insecurities and doubts, it enlightens me with knowledge and self-confidence. 

I’ve been nasuated by constantly reading articles in where they provide vague generalizations about relationships that in order for the successful-marriage formula to work, one must be arranged a potential by the choice of their parents or if one has found a potential spouse, they should immediately marry. As if these are the ONLY two options available for muslims.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, masha Allah!<br />
I cannot believe how relieved I am.<br />
As this article fades my insecurities and doubts, it enlightens me with knowledge and self-confidence. </p>
<p>I’ve been nasuated by constantly reading articles in where they provide vague generalizations about relationships that in order for the successful-marriage formula to work, one must be arranged a potential by the choice of their parents or if one has found a potential spouse, they should immediately marry. As if these are the ONLY two options available for muslims.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Let&#8217;s Talk About Dating by Shazia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shazia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 11:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes Ameen!

I really pray InshAllah that we the next generation ensure that culture does not get mixed up with pure Islamic teaching as this is what causes problems in the first place unfortunately.

There is no harm in keeping that of your culture which does not go against Islam.

May Allah protect us from straying from the right path, Ameen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes Ameen!</p>
<p>I really pray InshAllah that we the next generation ensure that culture does not get mixed up with pure Islamic teaching as this is what causes problems in the first place unfortunately.</p>
<p>There is no harm in keeping that of your culture which does not go against Islam.</p>
<p>May Allah protect us from straying from the right path, Ameen.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Let&#8217;s Talk About Dating by Naji</title>
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		<dc:creator>Naji</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 11:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do understand. Im A older brother still striving to learn more &amp; more about the deen &amp; fine it difficlut to meet any sister to help in my struggles? Im really afraid to approach any sister cause I dont want to be rejected. I think this is A Great Article. I no I have to remain patient &amp; Inshallah Allah will Grand me Beatiful Wife soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do understand. Im A older brother still striving to learn more &amp; more about the deen &amp; fine it difficlut to meet any sister to help in my struggles? Im really afraid to approach any sister cause I dont want to be rejected. I think this is A Great Article. I no I have to remain patient &amp; Inshallah Allah will Grand me Beatiful Wife soon.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Aren&#8217;t My Prayers Being Answered? by Muslema</title>
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		<dc:creator>Muslema</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 11:41:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Firstly: 

If the worshipper can say du’aa’ well in Arabic, it is not permissible for him to make du’aa’ in any other language. 

But if the worshipper is unable to make du’aa’ in Arabic, there is no reason why he should not make du’aa’ in his own language, so long as he starts learning Arabic in the meantime. 

With regard to making du’aa’ in languages other than Arabic outside of prayer, there is nothing wrong with that, especially if that will make the worshipper more focused in his du’aa’. 

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: 

It is permissible to make du’aa’ in Arabic and in languages other than Arabic. Allaah knows the intention of the supplicant and what he wants, no matter what language he speaks, because He hears all the voices in all different languages, asking for all kinds of needs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Firstly: </p>
<p>If the worshipper can say du’aa’ well in Arabic, it is not permissible for him to make du’aa’ in any other language. </p>
<p>But if the worshipper is unable to make du’aa’ in Arabic, there is no reason why he should not make du’aa’ in his own language, so long as he starts learning Arabic in the meantime. </p>
<p>With regard to making du’aa’ in languages other than Arabic outside of prayer, there is nothing wrong with that, especially if that will make the worshipper more focused in his du’aa’. </p>
<p>Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: </p>
<p>It is permissible to make du’aa’ in Arabic and in languages other than Arabic. Allaah knows the intention of the supplicant and what he wants, no matter what language he speaks, because He hears all the voices in all different languages, asking for all kinds of needs.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Aren&#8217;t My Prayers Being Answered? by Omar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Omar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 11:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Salam brother Adam,

I would like to welcome you to Islam, and I pray that Allah will bless you and guide you to be a source of blessings and goodness for others.

The position of the Maliki school is that it is permissible for one to supplicate during his prayers in a language other than Arabic. This was noted by a great scholar named al-Dasuqi who said, “It is permissible for one who is not fluent in Arabic to supplicate during prayers in a different language” (Hashiyyah al-Dusuqi ‘ala al-Sharh al-Kabir, vol. 4, pg. 451).

And Allah knows best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salam brother Adam,</p>
<p>I would like to welcome you to Islam, and I pray that Allah will bless you and guide you to be a source of blessings and goodness for others.</p>
<p>The position of the Maliki school is that it is permissible for one to supplicate during his prayers in a language other than Arabic. This was noted by a great scholar named al-Dasuqi who said, “It is permissible for one who is not fluent in Arabic to supplicate during prayers in a different language” (Hashiyyah al-Dusuqi ‘ala al-Sharh al-Kabir, vol. 4, pg. 451).</p>
<p>And Allah knows best.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Let&#8217;s Talk About Dating by Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 12:01:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Peace be Upon You, brothers and sisters.

Foremost, I congratulate sister Munira Lekovic Ezzeldine for writing such a wonderful article. May it help me and many other Muslim teenagers in “Westernized” countries find a practical courting solution in this ever changing world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Peace be Upon You, brothers and sisters.</p>
<p>Foremost, I congratulate sister Munira Lekovic Ezzeldine for writing such a wonderful article. May it help me and many other Muslim teenagers in “Westernized” countries find a practical courting solution in this ever changing world.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Aren&#8217;t My Prayers Being Answered? by Adam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 11:19:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recently converted and, while I’ve learned to say my prayers in Arabic, I cannot make general supplications (du`a’) in Arabic when I prostrate. Is it Islamically acceptable to say those supplications in English?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently converted and, while I’ve learned to say my prayers in Arabic, I cannot make general supplications (du`a’) in Arabic when I prostrate. Is it Islamically acceptable to say those supplications in English?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Aren&#8217;t My Prayers Being Answered? by Nur</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 11:10:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Assalam. Sukran for providing right perspective for dua of a Muslim. When we ask for something, we should pray to Allah to accept our prayer if it is ultimately good for us. If we don’t get that thing, then instead of being frustrated, we should believe that it is for our good as Allah knows the best. Jazak Allah Khairan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assalam. Sukran for providing right perspective for dua of a Muslim. When we ask for something, we should pray to Allah to accept our prayer if it is ultimately good for us. If we don’t get that thing, then instead of being frustrated, we should believe that it is for our good as Allah knows the best. Jazak Allah Khairan.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Aren&#8217;t My Prayers Being Answered? by Ali</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 11:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes the dua that we utter from our tongues doesn’t match the dua that is in our heart. What do I mean by that? Say you are running late for work one morning and you make dua to Allah to allow you to get to work on time. Why do you want to get to work on time? Because you don’t want to get your boss mad. Why don’t you want to get your boss mad? So that he doesn’t fire you. Why don’t you want to get fired? Because if you get fired, then you won’t have a means to support yourself or your family. So what is the real worry that the person is praying to Allah about? Being able to support his family. 

Why do i mention this? Because Allah (SWT) accepts and answers the dua of the heart. The dua that you may utter after salah may not be matching the dua which is in your heart. So as Muslims, we need to strive to match what is in our heart with what is in our tongue and vice versa. 

And if it is not answered in this world, know that Allah (SWT) will answer it in the next, in a form that is a thousand times better than what you would have received in the dunya. Either that or your dua will serve as a road block for calamities which are supposed to befall on you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes the dua that we utter from our tongues doesn’t match the dua that is in our heart. What do I mean by that? Say you are running late for work one morning and you make dua to Allah to allow you to get to work on time. Why do you want to get to work on time? Because you don’t want to get your boss mad. Why don’t you want to get your boss mad? So that he doesn’t fire you. Why don’t you want to get fired? Because if you get fired, then you won’t have a means to support yourself or your family. So what is the real worry that the person is praying to Allah about? Being able to support his family. </p>
<p>Why do i mention this? Because Allah (SWT) accepts and answers the dua of the heart. The dua that you may utter after salah may not be matching the dua which is in your heart. So as Muslims, we need to strive to match what is in our heart with what is in our tongue and vice versa. </p>
<p>And if it is not answered in this world, know that Allah (SWT) will answer it in the next, in a form that is a thousand times better than what you would have received in the dunya. Either that or your dua will serve as a road block for calamities which are supposed to befall on you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Being the Middle Child: Jealousy and Rivalry Among Siblings by Nancy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2011 03:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for  the share!   
Nancy.R</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for  the share!<br />
Nancy.R</p>
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